Achinyamata vs. Okalamba
Mikangano pakati pa achinyamata ndi achikulire imatchedwanso mikangano yapadziko lonse. Koma kodi nchifukwa ninji zilipo? Tiyeni tiwone. Choyamba, tiyeni tikumbukire magawo osiyanasiyana amoyo.
- Zaka zaunyamata ndi sukulu
- Kulowa m'moyo wogwira ntchito
- Kupanga ntchito ndi / kapena banja
- utsogoleri
- Kulowa pantchito
- Ntchito zazikulu
Si moyo uliwonse wofanana, koma titha kugwiritsa ntchito magawo awa ngati chitsogozo. Magawo awa adalumikizidwa ndi vector ya nthawi yomwe ikufotokoza kuyambira kale mpaka mtsogolo, ndipo chidziwitso chimodzi ndichodziwikiratu: okalamba adakhalapo kale m'magawo am'mbuyomu, achinyamata adakali nawo patsogolo. Izi ndizofunika. Tiyeni tiwone zina mwazomwe zimakhudza thupi ndi malingaliro okalamba:
thupi
Sikuti kuchepa kwa thupi kumawonjezeka m'magawo onse. Kupatula apo, thupi limayamba lisanafike pachimake. Pomwepo ndiye kuti chiwonongeko chimayamba. Nthawi ndi kuchuluka kwa zonyansa zitha kufotokozedwa ngati kulimbitsa thupi, ndipo zimadalira pazinthu zambiri, monga moyo. Mwachitsanzo, kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, monga mowa ndi chikonga. Kupanikizika ndichinthu chofunikira. Mkhalidwe wathanzi sunalumikizidwe kwambiri ndi magawo amoyo. Ngakhale munthu wokalamba akhoza kukhala wathanzi. Kwa anthu omwe ali ndi zipsinjo zaubwana kapena kupsinjika mu gawo lakumangirira, kulimbitsa thupi kumatha kukhala bwino ngakhale muukalamba kuposa kale lonse. Ndi ukalamba wokhawokha pomwe chilengedwe chimawononga.
Soul
Thanzi la m'maganizo silimalumikizananso ndi magawo amoyo. Komabe, pali kulumikizana kwambiri pakati pa kulimbitsa thupi ndi thanzi. Kukhala wathanzi ndi vuto lathanzi.
Mind
Kulimbitsa thupi (kuwona / malingaliro / malingaliro) ndichinthu chosiyana ndi thanzi lam'mutu. Mkhalidwe wamaganizidwe umapangidwa mwamphamvu kwambiri ndi chifuniro cha munthuyo. Pamafunika khama kwambiri. Koma popeza kuyesetsa kukugwirizana ndi mphamvu yomwe ilipo, mkhalidwe wamaganizidwe umadalira kwambiri magawo am'mbuyomu ndi magawo amoyo. Popeza mapulogalamu olimbitsa thupi (maphunziro kapena yoga) amafunikanso kuyesetsa, ndipamene nkhani yamikangano yakubadwa imayambira.
Ndikufuna kusankha chimodzi apa, zomwe sizili zovuta kuzizindikira kwa anthu akale, koma zimafunikira kulimbika.
Lingaliro
Kwa ine, cholinga chachikulu kwambiri pamaganizidwe ndikuvomereza kusiyanasiyana. Kusiyana kwa zikhalidwe pakati pa anthu nthawi zonse kumakhala chinthu choyamba chomwe chimabwera m'malingaliro padziko lonse lapansi. Koma palinso kuvomereza kwamalingaliro osiyanasiyana m'magawo amoyo omwe ndiosavuta kumva. Apa, okalamba ali ndi mwayi chifukwa adakhala kale m'magawo onse. Achinyamata ayenera kudalira nkhani zakale, koma kodi nkhanizi zimawoneka bwanji?
Zochitika zimakhala ndi nthawi zopweteka zambiri, ndipo okalamba adakumana nazo zambiri. Tsoka ilo, zokumana nazo zopwetekazi nthawi zonse zimadzikakamiza kupita patsogolo munkhanizo, ndichifukwa chake nkhani izi zimamveka ngati chenjezo. Kukayikira kulinso chifukwa cha zokumana nazo. Kwa achichepere, zosankha zomwe amachita nthawi zambiri zimathera pakukhudzidwa ndi 100% chifukwa kukayika kopangidwa ndi zokumana nazo sikusowa - ndipo ndichinthu chabwino.
Pachifukwa ichi, okalamba ayenera kuphunzira kuchokera kwa achichepere, kapena m'malo mwake, azikumbukira magawo amoyo omwe adakhalapo kale. Ndipo tikayang'anitsitsa, achikulire amachitanso nthawi zina akamakumbukira zomwe zimatchedwa zopusa zaunyamata. Ndipo nthawi zambiri amachita izi ndikuseka! Potero, nthawi zina amaiwala kuti aone ngati zisankhozo zidalidi zopusa, osati kungolangidwa ndi zikhalidwe zomwe zidapambana munthawi yakumanga ntchito.
Zitha kuwonedwa kuti anthu okalamba kwambiri amabwereranso mumachitidwe achichepere, zomwe zimapangitsa kulumikizana ndi achinyamata kukhala omasuka kwambiri nthawi zambiri. Mwinanso ife anthu okalamba tiyenera kuyambiranso kuti tikhale ngati ana, chifukwa tikapuma pantchito titha kukankhira miyambo yomwe idatipondereza pantchitoyo kuti tibwererenso kumbuyo. Kodi ndi chabe zopanda pake zakupitirizabe kupikisana zomwe zimatilepheretsa kuchita izi? Achichepere adzawona zachabechabe ngati zopusa, ndipo ali olondola kutero. Zitha kumveka zopanda pake, koma kubwerera ku kupanda tsankho kwaubwana ndiye njira yathu yolandirira ndi achinyamata, omwe amafunikira kuthandizidwa polimbana ndi zoyipa zomwe anthu amachita. Potero, timapha mbalame ziwiri ndi mwala umodzi: zazing'ono zimakonda kutimveranso, ndipo timakhala athanzi.