Omncane vs. Omdala

by | Apr 21, 2021 | Izithonjana zabalandeli

Izingxabano phakathi kwabancane nabadala zibizwa nangokuthi izingxabano zesizukulwane. Kodwa kungani zikhona? Ake sikubheke. Okokuqala, masikhumbule izigaba ezahlukene zempilo.

  1. Ubuntwana neminyaka yesikole
  2. Ukungena empilweni yokusebenza
  3. Ukwakha umsebenzi wokuziphilisa kanye / noma umndeni
  4. Ubuholi
  5. Ukungena kumhlalaphansi
  6. Imisebenzi ephezulu

Akuyona yonke impilo efanayo, kepha singasebenzisa lezi zigaba njengomhlahlandlela. Lezi zigaba ziboshelwe ku-vector yesikhathi ekhomba esikhathini esedlule kuya esikhathini esizayo, futhi ukuqonda okukodwa kusobala: abantu abadala sebevele baphila ngezigaba ezedlule, abantu abasha basenabo ngaphambi kwabo. Lokho kubalulekile. Manje ake sibhekisise ezinye zezinto ezithinta ukuguga ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo:

umzimba

Akunjalo ukuthi ukwehla komzimba kuyanda kuzo zonke izigaba. Ngemuva kwakho konke, umzimba uyakhula ngaphambi kokuba ufinyelele ekusebenzeni kwawo okuphezulu. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho ukwehla kwesithunzi kuqala khona. Isikhathi nezinga lokwehliswa kwesithunzi kungachazwa njengokuqina komzimba, futhi kuncike ezintweni eziningi, ezifana nendlela yokuphila. Isibonelo, ukusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa, njengotshwala ne-nicotine. Ukucindezeleka nakho kuyisici esibalulekile. Isimo sokuqina asixhumene kakhulu nezigaba zempilo. Ngisho nomuntu omdala angakulungela. Kubantu abanezihlukumezi zobuntwana noma ukucindezeleka esigabeni sokwakha, ukuqina kungaba ngcono nasekugugeni kunanini ngaphambili. Kungokuguga kuphela lapho imvelo ithatha umthwalo wayo.

Soul

Impilo yengqondo nayo ayihlanganisiwe neze nezigaba zempilo. Kodwa-ke, kunokuxhumana okusondelene phakathi kokuqina ngokomzimba nangokomzimba. Ukuqina ngokomzimba cishe kuyisimo sempilo yengqondo.

Ingqondo

Ukuqina kwengqondo (ukubuka / ingqondo / umbono) kuyinto ehlukile empilweni yengqondo. Isimo somqondo sakhiwe ngokuqinile ngokwengeziwe ngentando yomuntu. Kudinga umzamo omkhulu. Kepha njengoba umzamo uhlobene namandla atholakalayo, isimo somqondo sincike kakhulu ezicini ezedlule nasezigabeni zokuphila. Njengoba izinhlelo zokuzilolonga komuntu siqu (ukuqeqeshwa noma i-yoga) nazo zidinga umzamo, kulapho ke indaba yezingxabano ezizukulwaneni iqala khona.

Ngingathanda ukukhetha umzamo owodwa lapha, ongenzima kangako ukuwubona kubantu abadala, kepha odinga isibindi.

I-Idea

Kimi, umgomo ophakeme we-mindset ukwamukela ukwehluka. Ukwehluka kwamasiko phakathi kwabantu kuhlale kuyinto yokuqala eza engqondweni emhlabeni jikelele. Kepha kukhona nokwamukelwa kwezingqondo ezahlukahlukene ezigabeni zokuphila okulula kakhulu ukuziqonda. Lapha, abantu asebekhulile ngokusobala basethubeni ngoba vele sebephila kuzo zonke izigaba. Abasha kumele bathembele ezindabeni zakudala, kepha ngabe lezi zindaba zibukeka kanjani?

Okuhlangenwe nakho kuqukethe izikhathi eziningi ezibuhlungu, futhi ezindala zibhekane nokuningi kwazo. Ngeshwa, lezi zimo ezibuhlungu zihlala ziziphendulela phambili ekulandiseni, yingakho lezi zindaba zivame ukuzwakala njengezixwayiso. Ukungabaza nakho kungumphumela wokuhlangenwe nakho. Kubantu abasha, izinketho zesenzo zivame ukuphela ekuqinisekisweni okungu-100% ngoba ukungabaza okwenziwe okuhlangenwe nakho akukho - futhi lokho kuyinto enhle.

Ngalokhu, abadala kufanele bafunde kwabancane, noma-ke, bakhumbule izigaba zempilo asebeke baphila kuzo. Futhi uma sibhekisisa kahle, abadala nabo bayakwenza kwesinye isikhathi lapho bekhumbula lokho okuthiwa yiziphukuphuku zobusha. Futhi bavame ukukwenza ngokuhleka! Kepha ngokwenza njalo, kwesinye isikhathi bayakhohlwa ukubheka ukuthi ngabe izinqumo beziyiziphukuphuku ngempela yini, hhayi nje ukujeziswa ngezinkambiso zomphakathi ezathola amandla ngezikhathi zokwakhiwa kwamakhondo emisebenzi.

Kungabonwa ukuthi abantu abadala kakhulu babuyela emaphethini acishe abe njengengane, okwenza ukuxhumana nentsha kukhululeke kakhudlwana futhi ezimweni eziningi. Mhlawumbe thina bantu asebekhulile kufanele siqale kusenesikhathi ukuthi sifane nezingane futhi, ngoba ngokuthatha umhlalaphansi singakwazi ukusunduza imikhuba yezenhlalo eyasicindezela kakhulu ngenkathi sakha umsebenzi futhi. Ngabe kungamampunge kuphela okusakwazi ukuncintisana okusivimbela ekwenzeni lokho? Intsha izobona lokhu kuyize njengokuhlekisa, futhi baqinisile ukwenza njalo. Kungazwakala kungenangqondo, kepha ukubuyela ekungakhethi kobuntwana kuyisihluthulelo sethu ekwamukelweni yintsha, edinga ukwesekwa ekulweni nemikhuba emibi yomphakathi. Ngokwenza njalo, sibulala izinyoni ezimbili ngetshe elilodwa: abasha bayathanda ukusilalela futhi, futhi siba nempilo.

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Iwusokhaya Horst Grabosch

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